First Impressions Count

Meeting For The First Time

Do you suffer with nerves the first time you meet somone do your legs go to jelly, does your throat go dry, your stomach turns over if this is you your suffering with first night nerves read on and you will put those days behind you.

First Impressions Count.

To win your lovers heart.  You must create a good impression.  Otherwise, you may not be able to repair the damage to create a good impression.  You must not be late otherwise they will think you do not care a friendly smile can make all the difference and break the ice a smart appearance  lets them know you have made an effort to look good for them try to be humourous, as this will help to break the nerves but don't go over the top.

A Date is For Two

Don't talk only about yourself, how many times have you found yourself getting bored stiff, listen to someone talking about themselves all-night by using the word we more often it gives a caring feeling, trying not to use the word I and let yourself be discovered be a good listener, and try and find mutual subjects that you both like to talk about ask questions and try not to talk about work all night.

Compliments

Everyone loves compliments, so if someone looks nice tell them if they have lovely blue eyes, tell them how much you like there eyes if someone has just spent two hours getting ready for a date wouldn't you think they'd like to know if they look nice and it has been worth it.

Gifts

Everyone likes gifts so why not take a small bunch of flowers or box of chocolates, dont go over the top as they might feel that you are showing off also try going somewhere different on a first date and not down your local pub or club try going to a concert or a play if you think you are going to be too nervous to talk It might not be a good idea to go to a restaurant to start with.

Be Yourself

Don't try and be someone you're not because you'll end up falling flat on your face, and if they don't like you for who you are then what's the point in dragging it out, but in saying that you cannot read a book by its cover that's why first impressions count. So be courteous dress smart, smile  remember a few jokes go somewhere different and enjoy your night out.

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